Counseling Blog
In romantic partnerships, sexual desire plays a crucial role in bonding, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. However, one common challenge that many couples face is sexual desire discrepancy, where partners have differing levels of sexual desire.
Once upon a time when divorce was rare, most people were driven to divorce by one of the “Triple A” problems: Affairs, Addictions, or Abuse.
Divorce is a seismic event, not only for the couple involved but also for their children. It reshapes the family dynamic, alters relationships, and leaves lasting imprints on everyone involved.
In summary, research now shows that divorce ambivalence is widespread among people who have entered the divorce process. It’s not over just because the legal divorce process has started.
Gaslighting is a complex and insidious form of psychological abuse that can have devastating effects on its victims.
If you or someone you know is having marital doubts, there is hope for understanding what’s going on, gaining more clarity, and getting off of the roller coaster of emotions!
Chronic illness isn’t just a personal battle; it’s a journey that profoundly impacts every facet of life, including the dynamics within a marriage.
Unbridled self-expression refers to a mode of communication where individuals express their thoughts, feelings, and needs without considering the impact on others, often leading to conflict and disconnection.
Nagoski argues that there is no one-size-fits-all model for sexual desire and that women's experiences are diverse and individualized.
Childhood emotional neglect casts a long shadow over adult relationships, impacting emotional well-being and the ability to form deep connections.
While adults grapple with the challenges of separation, children often find themselves caught in the crossfire, experiencing a myriad of emotions and adjustments.
While much attention is rightfully given to the immediate impact on spouses and young children, the effects on adult children are equally significant but often overlooked.
Beyond the legal ramifications, divorce profoundly affects the individuals involved, reshaping their emotional landscapes in ways both anticipated and unforeseen.
Creating emotional intimacy with your spouse requires effort, vulnerability, and a commitment to nurturing your relationship.
In this blog, we'll explore the wisdom of John Gottman regarding the importance of rituals in couple relationships, along with examples of how they can be incorporated into our own love stories.
This role is typically assumed by a partner who becomes overwhelmed by negative emotions and seeks to address issues in the relationship through forceful or aggressive means.
When a couple encounters issues that threaten the stability of their relationship, discernment counseling can be a valuable tool to help them decide the best path forward.
Maintaining a satisfying and harmonious sexual relationship can be a challenge for many couples, especially when differences in sexual desire emerge.
The lost child role is one of the most intricate and delicate threads in the tapestry of family dynamics. While it might not be as visible as other roles, its impact on the individual's emotional and psychological well-being is profound.
The struggles of being a scapegoat child are profound and can have far-reaching effects on an individual's life. From emotional turmoil and identity crisis to isolation and difficulties with relationships, the impact of this role cannot be underestimated.
In a world that celebrates achievement and success, being a "hero child" might seem like a dream come true. The term "hero child" refers to a person who consistently excels in various aspects of life, meeting or even surpassing the high expectations set by their family, peers, and society.
Families are complex systems where each member plays a unique role, often unconsciously, that contributes to the overall dynamics and functioning of the family unit. These roles are not assigned explicitly but develop over time based on various factors such as personality traits, family dynamics, and the needs of the family.
It is characterized by a lack of a consistent pattern of attachment behaviors, and can be marked by both approach and avoidance behaviors towards the attachment figure.
Avoidant attachment is a type of attachment style that can affect the way people form and maintain relationships.
Anxious attachment can significantly impact how individuals form and maintain relationships. By understanding the roots of this attachment style and implementing strategies for change, individuals can foster healthier connections with their partners.
Understanding one's own attachment style and how it may impact relationships can be valuable in improving the quality and stability of those relationships.
This is a way of acting out or expressing anger and frustration that stems from feeling like a victim in one's own life.
Dr. Sue Johnson’s research on relationships and emotions has had a significant impact on the field of couples therapy.
Contempt is a destructive emotion that can seriously harm a marital relationship.
Victim stance is a psychological state in which an individual perceives themselves as a victim of circumstances or other people's actions.