One partner pleads for a closer relationship with one breath, then lashes out with the next. They might present a litany of reasons why their spouse is inadequate while simultaneously wondering why their feedback is ignored.
Boundaries should foster connection, not just distance. When used well, they create a relational environment where both people feel safe, respected, and valued.
In relationships, whether romantic or platonic, a strong foundation is essential. Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, experts in the field of relationship psychology, have researched and emphasized the role of friendship in building and maintaining successful relationships.