marriage

Thinking About Separation?

Thinking About Separation?

Many couples get to a 'stalemate' in their relationship and decide to separate. Often couples will separate without structure to the separation which can lead to more conflict and contempt in the relationship. Separation can be helpful if there are guidelines to the separation.

How to Repair Your Relationship After a Difficult Argument

All couples have conflict.  Conflict is a healthy part of relationships as long as it is managed in a healthy way.  Have you ever had a fight and things were said or done that you regret and now you are left "with where do we go from here?"  The couples that make it through difficult times are ones that have a common desire to understand each other.  Do you desire to understand your partner?  Or are you defensive and trying to prove them wrong?

Understanding your partner leads to empathy and caring.  This aids to repair the damage that has been done to a relationship after an arguement.  Read this article to learn more!

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/healing-and-growing/201508/positive-template-ending-marital-fights

Will This Relationship Last?

Do you ever wonder if you are in the right relationship?  Do you ever question if your marriage will stay together as long as your grandparents' marriage?  There is a large amount of research that discusses what keeps couples happy with each other and their relationship.  This article is a great place to start learning about the keys to great relationships!  

http://nextshark.com/john-julia-gottman-happy-relationships/