Are You an Angry Pursuer?

Are You an Angry Pursuer?

"You never spend time with me anymore!"

"Nothing I do is ever good enough for you!"

"You don't even want to be married, do you?"

I often work with couples that have one partner begging for a closer relationship with one breath, and then they viciously attack with the next. Or they will produce an extensive list of reasons why their spouse is lousy, while at the same time wondering why their feedback is ignored.

My Spouse Wants Out

My Spouse Wants Out

Has your spouse checked out of your marriage?  Perhaps they have made it clear that they are no longer happy in the relationship. Are all indicators pointing towards separation or even divorce? Are you begging them to go to marriage counseling, but they won't even consider it as an option?

I can help.


On the Verge of an Unnecessary Divorce?

On the Verge of an Unnecessary Divorce?

In his book, Take Back You Marriage, Dr. Bill Doherty discusses the research around divorce.  For example, are you aware that research states that forty percent of couple that have divorced regret the decision?  Now that is less than half of couple who regret their decisions, yet still many lives are disshelved due to an unnecessary divorce.  In this book, Dr. Doherty discusses that for many people, they reach a point of pain and fear in their marriage which blurs their view of your marriage and leads them to using poor judgement regarding which path to take their marriage.  He lists a number of indicators that you have reached this point.  From his book he lists this indicators as follows:

Who Should I Talk to About My Spouse's Affair?

Who Should I Talk to About My Spouse's Affair?

When you discover your spouse has had an affair it is absolutely devastating. Your mind spins. You rage against how your spouse could betray you and your family. You are dying for some support and empathy.  Who do you speak with?  Often people turn to those in their lives who are supposed to have their backs - their friends and family.