When you discover your spouse has had an affair it is absolutely devastating. Your mind spins. You rage against how your spouse could betray you and your family. You are dying for some support and empathy. Who do you speak with? Often people turn to those in their lives who are supposed to have their backs - their friends and family.
Infidelity is one of the main issues I work with on a consistent basis with couples. When they come to counseling, their relationship is already in crisis. The tips above are a good way to start repairing the damage caused by infidelity. Along with the author's 3 tips from the video, I also wanted to share my own advice.
Infidelity has quickly adapted to the digital age. Affairs can be initiated via social media, web forums, and even by using phone apps. With the recent Ashley Madison hack, many couples are struggling with publicly exposed infidelity. Here are some answers to questions that people have regarding infidelity in their relationships, for those who have been cheated on or have cheated themselves.